Saturday, November 15, 2008

Imagine A Child Writing What He Wants To On The Board

This one always makes me chuckle because I would like to know how she knew that Griffin was "purposefully writing wrong answers". Now is she psychic or what? I know that Griffin is a brilliant child but there are times when he does get the answers wrong and even if he was writing the wrong answers on purpose then why should he be punished for it?

Then she wrote that he wrote the wrong answers because, "he wanted to write what he wanted on white board" SO WHAT! Of course he wanted to write what he wanted, he is a child and that is what children do! They are self centered and they want what they want when they want it and for sure that does not warrant punishment.

The only legitimate thing that she wrote on this sheet is that he had difficulty listening to directions but still................that does NOT warrant punishment. He should have been redirected or had the directions explained to him in such a manner that he was more able to listen to and understand them.

I swear this woman was out to get Griffin for some bizarre reason and I cannot put my finger on it but it certainly seems to me that every single day she was looking for something to punish him for! I feel sure that she got some kind of sick satisfaction out of going after him because if she didn't like having to punish him then she would have had parent teacher conferences with me in order to remedy the situations but not once did she ever do that and not once did I get a paper giving the schedule for parent teacher conferences. There is something very fishy about that and very wrong! Griffin has never been at a school where they didn't have parent teacher conferences. I believe that she was afraid of me and what I would have had to say to her about her treatment of my child and she didn't have the where-with-all (not sure if that is how it is spelled) to talk to me face to face. She was audacious in her punishment of my child but didn't have the guts to face me about it.

This woman was and still is inherently EVIL because she was a predator out to have my child for lunch each and every day! She was not and is not a teacher she is the unspeakable because her prey was an innocent child with autism and I am certain that she is preying on somebody else's child because a sickness like that never goes away and I only wish that I could put a stop to it so that no other child is mentally and emotionally damaged by her! What bothers me is that I tried really hard to be nice to her and I took her special stuff for her classroom, I bought gingerbread houses for the kids to make and I volunteered every time they had an activity that needed other adults such as every single field trip that they had.

I have a very strong sense that tells me that she put Griffin in the Rifton chair (which is ILLEGAL) when she had him in time out for 20 minutes, there is absolutely NO way that she could have kept him in time out for 20 minutes without putting him in it. There has got to be a reason that every single time I showed up at that school to go to that classroom that they announced to her that I was coming. What other reason would there be for them to do that? It is just very suspicious to me, there was plenty that they were hiding from me and they did a very good job at hiding it and I should have followed my instincts and dug deeper but I didn't want to think it and believe that it was true. I was in denial and she took full advantage of it.

I would just like to know what she had against my child and I don't care to know what she had against me but Griffin had nothing to do with why she disliked me so bad and he never should have been needlessly punished for trivial matters that were easily taken care of had she known what she was doing in the first place!

I am still looking into finding a Pro Bono lawyer who will help me take this case to a Due Process Hearing and I will not stop until the time has run out (1 year). I am determined to expose this monster for who she really is and make sure that she doesn't hurt anymore children.

2 comments:

Anonymous said...

This school and this "teacher" (I use that word lightly) sound disgusting. How people like this can claim to understand how to teach children on the spectrum and then do this to them is horrifying. Every single thing that happened at this school sounded illegal and out of compliance with IDEA. I would at least file a formal complaint against this district with your DOE and although it is difficult you have the right to represent yourself at due process. If you have everything documented, know the law and a have good hearing officer, many times this works.

I would also go to the newpapers and the media about this district They sound extremely abusive and should be exposed so they don't do this to other children.

Melinda said...

I can relate to all the crap you are going through or have with the so-called teachers in the school system. Your posts remind me of all the reasons why I withdrew Noah from public school and am again homeschooling him....with the help this time of an online public charter virtual school.

Thanks for reminding me of the reasons WHY I did this.....in case I ever question my choice.